How To Overcome Disappointment And Make That Feeling To Achieve Your Goals.

“In Order To Succeed We Must First Believe That We Can.”                                                      

Nikos Kazantzakis.

There’s no any doubt that we all have experienced disappointment during our lifetime. It is just the action of your brain readjusting itself to reality after discovering things are not the way you thought. But do not let them be a road bump, not a road block on your path to joy.

These 5 steps learn how to make the feeling of disappointment to achieve your goals.

1. Control Your Emotions And Try To Stay Calm And Happily.

Disappointment means sadness or displeasure caused by non-fulfillment of one’s hopes or expectations. It is very difficult to deal with this unexpected situation. Many negative thoughts will continuously flowing to your mind. So never take any important decision in this occasion. Take time to come down and try to forget it , never react to what you feel at this point.

2.      2. Think What Make You Disappointed

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       We all have expectations and dreams. Sometimes they are realistic and sometimes they are not. Take time to think though your dreams are realistic. But many times your expectations are realistic but you have managed them poorly. There are many reasons. Fault may in you or in people you associate. Don’t blame people for disappointing you; blame yourself for expecting too much from them. Don’t attach to anything deeply. Then you expect more from them because you would be willing to do that much for them. Expect nothing and accept anything then you will never be disappointed.

3.     3.  Re Evaluate Your Expectations

Are you ready to rebuild yourself?? Do you feel you have little fear?? .It is a common emotion we felt after an unexpected situation. Our mind will filled with number of negative feelings. FEAR has 2 meanings FORGET EVERYTHING AND RUN or FACE EVERYTHING AND RAIS. Choice is yours!!.

4.     4.  Turn This Emotion In To A Challenge.

In many times feeling of disappointment will be a gift of god. There are many personalities who face reality and succeed their lives after facing hard times. Now you are well experienced and you know how to face and manage this kind of situation. You know what made you disappointed and how to skip them in future. Now this is the time to study well in your desired field or deeply examine your expectations, how to convert them to real. You can read about great personalities how they face problems, tactics they used and how they apply practically.

5.     5.  Reach Your Targets.

Now you are full of confident. Your experience and knowledge definitely pave way to reach your goals. Be thankful for the hard times you faced. Success occurs when your dreams get bigger than your excuses. Don’t wait for opportunity. Create it by yourself. Believing yourself is the first secret to success. You learn more from failure than from success. Don’t let it stop you. Manage your hard time and failure to win your life because winners are not people who never fail, but people who never quilt.